On the streets of any city you can sometimes meet men and women who differ quite sharply from the generally accepted standards. Looks like beautiful girls or pretty guys, but there is something in them that seems unnatural. And only looking more closely, you can see the guy clearly delineated chest, and the girl's Adam's apple.
Such people for some reason do not understand, are afraid, avoid the party. They are called transsexuals. Why are transsexuals so and how can their atypical behavior be explained? Let's try to understand.
Who are these people?
From the point of view of medicine, a transsexual is a person with an internal imbalance of sex, desired and real. Simply put, born in a foreign body for him, a man or a woman, he can not and does not want to put up with the mistake of nature, the role prepared for him in life is unpleasant and brings constant discomfort.
The rejection of the natural sex becomes the cause of depression, worsens mental health, life in an alien body turns into an eerie nightmare. A transsexual is a person who usually sees in the current situation only a few ways out: to live in eternal suffering, persecuting thoughts about suicide, or abandoning the nature of gender identity.
Completely to refuse it is possible only after difficult, long, expensive operation on change of a floor which is dangerous to a life. And not everyone can afford medical intervention, even for the sake of harmony of body and soul.
A person who was able to undergo a full course of operations and activities related to sex change is no different from other people. But those to whom all this is not available for some reason, in many ways, refuse to live in a hateful body. This is expressed in a change in appearance, and the circle of communication, way of life.
What are the causes of transsexuality?
The most common are transsexual boys, for girls this phenomenon is less typical. Usually the cause of transsexuality is any social causes, society is used to rigidly link social roles in life with gender. Deviations from the generally accepted norms are condemned and blamed, sometimes it comes to erecting a person as an outcast.
Everything starts from childhood, parents, the school require certain actions, reinforcing them with phrases: "You're a girl (boy)." As a result, an internal psychological conflict is due to the inability to provide the expected behavior.
There is another opinion - the arguments of some scientists who believe that a transsexual is a person with a biological defect. Such people are uncharacteristic of the average person's structure of some separate areas of the brain.
Many people mistakenly believe that a transsexual is a person with an unconventional orientation. But this is not so. Such people can be heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual relative to the desired, rather than natural, gender.
A transvestite and a transsexual are one and the same?
These two concepts differ significantly from each other, although society often confuses them. Transvestites have only a tendency to disguise themselves in the clothes of the opposite sex. For them, dressing up is just a game that raises the level of adrenaline and provokes a surge of positive emotions.
Beyond weakness, transvestites are ordinary people who lead a normal life from the point of view of society and do not experience any moral suffering. They, unlike transsexuals, suit their gender and there is no desire to change it.
Not everyone can boast that reality coincides with his desires. Eternal sensation of discomfort and imbalance is a tragedy for any person. And, despite the condemnation of society, transsexuals are only trying to achieve harmony and internal balance.
Transsexuals can not be cured by psychotherapy or medications, they are not mentally ill people. The only way out for them is transformation into the opposite sex, but due to the inaccessibility of these changes, transsexuals have to build their lives and adapt in this world by any means available to them.