Each representative of the weaker sex is endowed with external beauty to one degree or another. And for some reason this factor is considered to be almost the most important attribute in order to find happiness in your personal life. Beautiful - means, will attract attention, look, and choose an excellent pair. And what to do to those who do not shine with external data, but in addition also endowed with complexes about this?
Many women in this category, to cope with the problem of lack of privacy, attend trainings, seminars, participate in thematic meetings, where the main theme is "The art of seducing a man." There, sisters in misfortune help all their neighbors who are victims of their own appearance, complexes, or any internal conflicts.
However, in order to learn this skill, it is not at all necessary to go to a seminar, which, as a rule, costs a lot of money, and it brings very dubious benefit, if at all. First of all, a woman should understand one simple truth - the whole art of seducing a man lies precisely in her, and since birth.
Each woman is a full cup of energy that attracts and keeps partners around itself. That is why some women are always in the center of attention and care of men, and at the same time do not have an outstanding appearance. And others, being enviable beauties, while away long evenings in solitude. External data, of course, matter, but not so large, which many are accustomed to give it.
If you ask a guy to describe an attractive, in his opinion, girl, and then show a similar example on the street, then there will obviously be a definite difference between the appearance of a really specified woman and the person represented And all because men think figuratively. They paint in their thoughts a portrait that may actually look different. Just a strong sex perceives partners in energy. It may even seem to them that a woman is naturally beautiful, although in fact she can be well-groomed and just can teach herself.
Psychology of seduction
When studying this issue should pay special attention to what is the psychology of seduction of men. So, it was previously found that their perception is not literal. That is, initially it is necessary to create an image in a man’s thoughts that later it will be quite easy to fall in love. Here is a simple example: the aroma of chocolate causes a lot more sensations and emotions than its appearance. In this case, you should compare what is more effective. At what point can a person no longer hold back so as not to try a piece? When he feels the appetizing smell of sweetness, knowing that she is in close proximity? Or, opening a chocolate bar and putting it on a saucer, making it fully accessible, you just have to reach out - and it is already in your mouth? Both options can, as a rule, be completed by eating dessert, but in the first case, the sensations are more acute. According to statistics, a person from two situations will remember the one in which there was a charming aroma.
However, much also depends on the way of perception. Mostly men belong to the category of visuals. They best perceive and assimilate what they see. That is why nature has created a feminine appearance so seductive.
The essence of technology
Techniques of seducing men are largely aimed at remaining a subject of desire, regardless of the proximity of the location. That is, the task is to make him think about a woman and do everything to get closer to her. And for this you need to show a little insight to identify the weaknesses of men. For example, if his type of woman is an attention, interesting and bright person, then you shouldn’t beat around the bush, but you should take on a similar look as soon as possible. If, in addition to appearance, he has a weakness for unpredictability and mystery, then it is necessary to focus on these moments of his behavior. In the case when the man himself likes to joke and have fun, we can assume that the partner should at least have a developed sense of humor.
Do not forget that the seduction is guaranteed only by that stage of the relationship, which can be called “hooked”. Further developments are not at all. Although if a man is serious about choosing a partner or even considering those who are suitable for the role of a potential bride, and in the future and his wife, then everything just begins with a trivial hook. He came, he saw, he fell in love - one can say, slightly paraphrasing a well-known statement.
Ways and rules of seduction
Ways of seducing a man contain such a seemingly simple trick as calling for interest with the help of external appearance. Representatives of the stronger sex, of course, will pay attention to the girl in a ultra-short dress with a deep neckline, and in addition on heels of indecent heights. However, how strong will this interest be? Just a fleeting, though keen eye, or something more? To really "hook" and arouse genuine interest in him, it is necessary to conceal a riddle. To be feminine, hidden sexual and, of course, abide by the rules of seducing men.
On the example of clothes, it is easy to understand what the representatives of the stronger sex in girls want to see. The best option for seduction is a dress - a truly female outfit, emphasizing all the virtues. It should be the correct length, it is good to show the silhouette of the figure, the fabric must be chosen to have a nice touch and color. The best option - cocktail dress. As a rule, its length varies approximately in the middle of the distance between the knee and the thigh. The silhouette should be chosen to be tight-fitting, depending on the figure, but clearly emphasizing the waistline. Elegant and feminine shoes with a comfortable and thin heel will help to complement the seductive look. The silhouette as a whole should resemble an hourglass.
Hairstyle also has considerable value. Men find their hair very seductive. These may be flirty curls or light waves. By the way, men prefer just such hairstyles. Straight hair according to statistics occupy the last place after ultrashort and extreme haircuts. It would seem that everything is said about appearance, but there is one more thing, without which seduction of a man is impossible. This is definitely a fragrance.
It is difficult to agree with the male opinion that body odor is the most seductive among all perfumes. However, if they talk about this, then the truth is still there, whether you want to or not. This opinion is expressed by scientists who are studying the effect of natural odor on a partner.
The aroma of the female body is a powerful aphrodisiac, which is subconsciously read by the male brain. Hormones are not fooled and do not veil any perfume. And in order to increase attraction, very often they resort to using the gifts of nature, using natural essential oils, such as rose, jasmine, ylang-ylang, patchouli and sandalwood. They have a stimulating effect, contribute to the enhancement of the natural pheromones of the female body, which causes the man to experience increased desire for her.
Moreover, experts of esoteric sciences argue that essential oils should be applied depending on the location of the chakras, that is, the energy centers on the body. It is recommended to put a little citrus aroma on the hair, a rose or jasmine on the wrist or décolleté, and ylang-ylang, patchouli or sandalwood on the inguinal zone. You may notice that these oils are also applied depending on the complexity of perception and the inaccessibility of places.
Correct girl behavior
The secrets of seducing men also lie in behavior. Representatives of the stronger sex at first sight can be subdued by a woman who radiates confidence in her own uniqueness. This is manifested in the posture, the ability to keep your body relaxed and calm. For example, a smooth flexible back, straightened, not tense shoulders, natural features, unconstrained gestures - all this indicates that a woman is satisfied with herself, accepts her body as it is. However, it can be very modest. This is better than self-confident lady. Do not confuse the concept of modesty and shyness - this is not the same thing. Also has a great influence on behavior. If a girl is open for communication, keeps fun and at ease, it means that she knows how to find joy in everything, and can also be happy. These features are very important when choosing a partner. After all, no matter how wonderful the relationship may be, if a person does not know how to be happy, it can irrevocably spoil everything.
Words will help!
Humor plays a crucial role. Seducing a man with words is best done in a veiled form. Subtle humor is the best cover. Moreover, men actually love the girl to be rather mysterious and did not show an open interest in them. Yet they are conquerors. If a man is seduced by a woman's initiative, it should look as if he himself wanted it. And the girl was just there. Even using specific methods of temptation, you should cover the entire secret intent as much as possible. Otherwise, an object can lose interest very quickly if everything is very simple. It is very important not only to step in the open, as to produce subtle hints at your desires. For example, phrases for seducing men should bear not only the meaning. Of course, it’s better if it is praise and emphasis on the guy’s strengths. However, the main thing is how they will be pronounced. It should practice and develop a chest voice velvet, which most men consider very sexy. It is necessary to speak with aspiration so that it really looks and is heard as a sensual manifestation, and not as shortness of breath after a run. In any case, even if a blooper technically happens, you can always turn the situation into humor.
Eyes and gaze
The story of seducing a man is always full of tales of charismatic and bright women who were able to slay anyone with their stunning look. That is what should be given maximum attention. The eyes are the mirror of the soul. It is necessary to learn how to show your true intentions with their help. After all, a glance is something that does not require an explanation, as well as evidence. He just has to hypnotize and lure infinite passion. Fortunately, today there are many possibilities in the form of decorative cosmetics to make the look irresistible. Black, like night, eyelashes, a slight haze of shadows on the eyelids - and mystery is provided. Eye contact should be kept as long as possible, then lower them and look at the object again, as if putting a bullet. After such a reception, hardly anyone will remain indifferently standing apart.
Techniques of seducing guys
By making eye contact, you can apply additional techniques of seducing a man. For example, receiving a random touch. First you need to take a pose that reflects the position of the interlocutor. This will tell you without a word that you are on the same wavelength, and subconsciously dull the man’s anxiety and fear. Yes, such emotions often accompany the representatives of the stronger sex when meeting a charming lady. No matter how confident they look, the same happens in everyone’s soul.
When subconsciously the interlocutors became allies, you can proceed directly to the execution of the reception. In a noisy and crowded place, this is easiest to do. Under the guise of poor hearing, you can lean closer, touching the neck or shoulder, and closely say something to your ear. You can go further, but depending on the situation. When speaking, it is very sensual to touch the lips of the ear. In this case, the hand can be held on the collar area, which is very sensitive. A wave of desire is guaranteed to roll on a man. And then everything is in your hands.
With the help of touches you can attract attention to yourself. For example, hold your hand through the hair or your knee. Men always notice such gestures. This moment will remain in his memory and will remind him of the girl, even when they are at a distance.
Seduction of a strong sex
The best seductions of men occur, of course, alone, when the actual convergence occurred. Absolutely everything is important here - a heady aroma of perfume, pleasant to the touch clothes, a wave of soft curls, an alluring look, a facial expression that speaks about true women's desires, gentle and sensual touches, unconstrained body movements. No one can resist such an arsenal aimed at temptation. At such moments, you need to act so that the desire is increasingly increasing. To do this, seducing a man should be done at a slightly slower pace than he himself would like. Getting directly to intimate moments, you should not forget about the proven methods of temptation. For example, erotic dance. Lighted candles, aromatic oils, pleasant atmosphere, light clothes and smooth movements of a semi-naked body to the beat of music - what could be better than such an evening? Also a good option can serve as a live song, especially to the accompaniment of, for example, a guitar or piano. Creativity is truly a female element that gives freedom of manifestation. It does not matter how the erotic seduction of men is performed. The main thing is that it really meets the true inner desires.
Good reception seduction - revelation
Revelations can also be attributed to effective methods. Of course, if there are all signs that a man is really ready to tell about himself and, possibly, his past. And when the conversation goes heart to heart, you need to become the best and very attentive listener. A man who feels that his partner can be trusted may have serious feelings for her. On the basis of gratitude, the best emotions arise that can be a powerful foundation for building strong relationships.
The methods of seducing men are so diverse and numerous that it would not be enough for a whole book to describe them all. However, all of them have one condition that must necessarily be observed, because otherwise it can fail, this is secrecy. A man, despite all the variety of techniques, should not guess that he is the object of seduction. In no case can you discuss all the details of the techniques out loud, even at the slightest chance that a guy can hear it. Otherwise, trust will be difficult to return, and the man will feel humiliated or a victim of consumer attitudes. Although in the very temptation as such, there is nothing bad.
Nature has created a beautiful woman both externally and internally. It is itself a manifestation of temptation.