Each representative of the weaker sex is endowed with external beauty to some extent. And for some reason this factor is considered almost the most important attribute in order to find happiness in your personal life. Beautiful - then, will attract attention, then look, and choose a great pair. And what about those who do not shine with external data, and in addition also have complexes on this?
Many women in this category, to cope with the problem of lack of privacy, attend training, seminars, participate in thematic meetings, where the main theme is "The Art of Seducing Men." There, sisters in misfortune help all neighbors who are a victim of their own appearance, complexes or any internal conflicts.
However, in order to learn this skill, it is not necessary to go to a seminar, which, as a rule, costs a lot of money, and the benefits are very doubtful, if at all. First of all, a woman should understand one simple truth: all the art of seducing a man is in it, and from birth.
Each representative of the fair sex is a full cup of energy that attracts and keeps partners around. That's why some women are always in the center of attention and care of men, and at the same time do not have an outstanding appearance. And others, being enviable beauties, spend long evenings alone. External data, of course, is important, but it is by no means so great that many people have accustomed to it.
If you ask a guy to describe an attractive, in his opinion, a girl, and then show a similar example on the street, then there will obviously be a difference between the appearance of a real woman and the one presented. And all because men think figuratively. They paint in their minds a portrait, which in fact may look different. Just a strong sex perceives an energy partner. They may even seem that the woman is beautiful by nature, although in fact she can be well groomed and just knows how to teach herself.
Psychology of seduction
When studying this issue, you should pay special attention to what the psychology of seducing men. So, earlier it was found out that their perception is not literal. That is, initially it is necessary to create in the minds of men an image, into which it will be quite easy to fall in love. Here is a simple example: the aroma of chocolate causes much more sensations and emotions than its appearance. In this case, we should compare what is more effective. At what point a person can not restrain himself so as not to try a piece? When does he feel the delicious smell of sweetness, knowing that it is in the immediate vicinity? Or, opening a chocolate bar and placing it on a saucer, making it completely accessible, it is only necessary to reach out and it is already in the mouth? Both options can, as a rule, end with eating dessert, but in the first case the sensations are of great severity. According to statistics, a man from two situations will remember the one in which the enchanting fragrance was present.
However, much also depends on the mode of perception. Most of the men are in the category of visuals. They best perceive and assimilate the information they see. That's why nature has created a woman's appearance so seductive.
The essence of technology
Techniques of seduction of men are in many ways aimed at remaining a subject of lust, regardless of proximity. That is, the task is to make him think about a woman and do everything to get closer to her. And to do this, you need to show a little insight in order to identify the weaknesses of men. For example, if his type of woman is attracting attention, an interesting and bright person, one should not go around the bush, but you need to take such a look as soon as possible. If, in addition to appearance, he has a weakness for unpredictability and mystery, then it is necessary to emphasize precisely these moments of his behavior. In the case when the man likes to joke and have fun, we can assume that the partner must at least have a developed sense of humor.
Do not forget that seduction guarantees only that stage of the relationship, which can be called "hooked". On the further development of events it does not go at all. Although if a man is serious about choosing a partner or even considering those who are suitable for the role of a potential bride, and in the future also of the wife, then everything starts with a banal clue. I came, saw, fell in love - you can say, a little paraphrased a well-known statement.
Methods and rules of seduction
Ways of seduction of men contain such a simple trick at first glance, as a challenge of interest with the help of an external appearance. Representatives of the stronger sex, of course, pay attention to the girl in an ultra-short dress with a deep neckline, and even in heels of indecent height. However, how strong will this interest be? Just a fleeting, though keen eye, or something more? In order to really "hook" and cause a genuine interest in yourself, you need to conceal a mystery in yourself. Be feminine, hidden sexuality and, of course, follow the rules of seduction of men.
On the example of clothes it is easy to understand what exactly the representatives of the stronger sex in girls want to see. The best option for seduction is a dress - a truly feminine outfit that emphasizes all the virtues. It should be the correct length, it is good to show the silhouette of the figure, the fabric should be chosen pleasant to the touch and color. The best option is a cocktail dress. As a rule, its length varies approximately in the middle of the distance between the knee and the thigh. Silhouette should be chosen moderately fitting, depending on the figure, but clearly emphasizing the waistline. To complement the seductive image will help elegant and feminine shoes on a comfortable and thin heel. The silhouette as a whole should resemble an hourglass.
Hairstyle is also of considerable importance. Men consider very seductive female hair. These can be coquettish curls or light waves. By the way, men prefer this kind of hair. Straight hair according to statistics occupy the last place after ultrashort and extreme haircuts. It would seem that everything is said about appearance, but there is one more point, without which it is impossible to seduce a man. This is definitely a fragrance.
It is difficult to agree with the male opinion that the body odor is the most seductive among all perfumes. However, if this is said, it means that there is still some truth, whether you like it or not. This opinion is expressed also by scientists who are studying the effects of a natural smell on a partner.
The fragrance of the female body is a powerful aphrodisiac, which at the subconscious level is read by the male brain. Hormones can not be fooled or veiled by any perfume. And to strengthen the attraction, very often resort to the help of the gifts of nature, using natural essential oils, such as rose, jasmine, ylang-ylang, patchouli and sandal. They have a stimulating effect, contribute to the enhancement of the natural pheromones of the female body, which causes the man to experience increased attraction to her.
Esoteric experts say that essential oils should be applied depending on the location of the chakras, that is, the energy centers on the body. It is recommended to drop a bit of citrus aroma on your hair, a rose or jasmine on your wrist or décolletage zone, and the ylang-ylang, patchouli or sandalwood on the inguinal zone. It can be noted that these oils are also applied depending on the complexity of perception and inaccessibility of places.
The correct behavior of the girl
Secrets of seduction of men are also in the manner of behavior. Representatives of the stronger sex at a glance can conquer a woman who radiates confidence in their own uniqueness. This is manifested in posture, the ability to keep your body relaxed and calm. For example, a smooth, flexible back, straightened, not strained shoulders, natural features, unconstrained gestures - all this indicates that the woman is satisfied with herself, accepts her body as it is. However, it can be very modest. It's better than a self-assured young lady. Do not confuse the concept of modesty and shyness - this is not the same thing. Also has a great influence behavior. If the girl is open for communication, keeps cheerfully and at ease, this indicates that she knows how to find joy in everything, and also can be happy. Such features are very important when choosing a partner. After all, no matter how wonderful the relationship is, if a person does not know how to be happy, it can ruin everything irrevocably.
Words will help!
Humor plays a crucial role. Seducing a man with words is best done in a veiled form. Subtle humor is the best cover. Especially men really love that the girl was moderately mysterious and did not show an open interest in them. Yet they are conquerors. If a man is seduced by a woman's initiative, it should look as if he himself wanted to. And the girl was just next door. Even using specific methods of temptation, you should cover up as much as possible all the secret intentions. Otherwise, the object can very quickly lose interest, if everything is very simple. It is very important not so much to step into the open as to make subtle hints of your desires. For example, phrases for seducing men should carry not only the semantic load. Of course, it's better if it's praise and emphasis on the strengths of the guy. But the main thing is how they will be pronounced. You should practice and develop a chest velvety voice, which most men find very sexy. It is necessary to speak with aspiration, so that it really looked and was heard as a sensual manifestation, and not as a shortness of breath after running. In any case, even if technically a blunder occurs, you can always turn the situation into humor.
Eyes and look
The story of the seduction of a man is always full of tales of charismatic and bright women who were able to defeat anyone with their stunning gaze. This is what should be given maximum attention. The eyes are the mirror of the soul. It is necessary to learn how to manifest with their help your true intentions. After all, the view is that it does not require explanations, as well as proofs. He simply must hypnotize and beckon with boundless passion. Benefit to date, there are many opportunities in the form of decorative cosmetics to make the look irresistible. Black, like the night, eyelashes, a light haze of shadows on the eyelids - and mystery is assured. Contact with the eyes should be kept as long as possible, then lower them and again look at the object, as if putting a fat point. After this reception, hardly anyone will remain indifferent to stand aside.
Techniques of seduction of guys
Having established visual contact, it is possible to apply additional techniques of seduction of the man. For example, receiving an accidental touch. First you need to take a pose that reflects the position of the interlocutor. It will tell you without words that you are on the same wave, and subconsciously dull the excitement and fear in the man. Yes, such emotions are often accompanied by representatives of the stronger sex when meeting with a charming lady. No matter how self-confident they may appear, in the soul of everyone there is about the same thing.
When the subconsciously interlocutors became allies, you can proceed directly to the execution of the reception. In a noisy and crowded place to do it the easiest. Under the guise of poor hearing, you can lean closer, touching the neck or shoulder, and say something close to the ear. You can go further, but depending on the situation. Speaking a speech, it is very sensual to touch the lips of the ear. At the same time, you can hold your hand over the collar zone, which is very sensitive. Wave of desire guaranteed to roll on a man. And then everything is in your hands.
With the help of touches, you can attract attention to yourself. For example, hold your hand over your hair or your knee. Men always notice such gestures. This moment will remain in his memory and will remind him of the girl, even when they are at a distance.
Seduction of the representative of the stronger sex
The best seductions of a man occur, of course, in private, when there was an actual rapprochement. Everything is absolutely important here - the heady aroma of perfume, pleasant to the touch clothes, a wave of soft curls, a beckoning look, the expression of a person talking about true female desires, gentle and sensual touches, unconstrained body movements. Nobody can resist such an arsenal, aimed at temptation. In such moments it is necessary to act in such a way that the desire will increase more and more. For this, the man should be seduced by a slightly slower pace than he wants. Coming directly to intimate moments, one should not forget about proven methods of temptation. For example, erotic dances. Lighted candles, aromatic oils, pleasant furnishings, light clothing and smooth movements of the half-naked body in time with the music - what could be better than this evening? Also a good option is a song performed live, especially to the accompaniment, for example, a guitar or piano. Creativity is a truly feminine element that gives freedom of expression. It does not matter how the erotic seduction of men is carried out. The main thing is that it really meets the true inner desires.
A good reception of seduction is a revelation
Revelations can also be referred to effective methods. Of course, if there are all signs that a man is really ready to tell about himself and, perhaps, his past. And when the conversation goes heart to heart, you need to become the best and very attentive listener. A man who feels that a partner can be trusted can feel serious feelings for her. On the basis of gratitude, the best emotions arise, which can become a powerful foundation for building strong relationships.
A small conclusion
The methods of seduction of men are so diverse and numerous that there is not enough of an entire book to describe them all. However, they all have one condition that must be followed, because otherwise it can not work out - it's secrecy. A man, despite all the variety of techniques, should not guess that he is the object of seduction. In no case can not discuss all the details of the techniques out loud, even with the slightest chance that a guy can hear it. Otherwise, trust will be difficult to return, and a man will feel humiliated or a victim of a consumer relationship. Although there is nothing wrong with temptation itself.
Nature has created a beautiful woman externally and internally. It is in itself a manifestation of temptation.