The relationship between a man and a woman will never be complete if at least one of the partners does not get satisfaction in sex. Unfortunately, male and female physiology differ significantly, many women take a long time to tune in to the sexual wave and start enjoying sex, while most men are ready to complete it in the first 10-15 minutes.
Fortunately, there are several ways to increase sexual desire, accelerate female libido. For this there are foreplay.
Foreplay: how to excite a woman
To begin with, men should know and remember that arousal in a woman occurs primarily in the head. In order for a lady to start experiencing sexual attraction to her partner, she needs to adjust her in an erotic way. What kind of foreplay is preferred by women? One of the proven methods is to write sms of erotic content or exquisite compliments made in your ear in a gentle whisper to each separate part of your favorite body. This will help a woman to relax, feel desirable and sexy. Here one should take into account individual peculiarities of perception: some girls love what is called “dirty curses”, others, on the contrary, can only be seduced by romantic phrases, and vulgarities can frighten them away.
Although it is customary to assume that women “love with their ears”, compliments and beautiful words may not make any impression on some of the fair sex. In this case, it is necessary to go on the offensive. Kissing - the easiest and most pleasant version of foreplay before sexual intercourse. But then again, someone is excited by the gentle touch of the lips, and for someone the passion is caused by bites and hot French kisses. No less important and simple touch. However, this kind of prelude no less exciting effect on men.
Massages and touches
The French writer and publicist Frederick Berbeder, in his famous book Ideal, argued that the human body cannot exist for a single day without embraces, because from an early age he was taught to receive his daily dose of sweet touches from loving parents.
Having matured, a man or a woman can no longer be treated in the same way as before, because with age such actions become indecent and even illegal. Then, in an attempt to get the necessary amount of touches again, a person throws out a lot of money for professional massages, relaxing SPA procedures, hairdressing, manicure and pedicure with the sole purpose of feeling the gentle touches of another person on his skin. So why not give them to your beloved partner for free? The main thing is to learn massage techniques that will make foreplay unforgettable and will give you amazing sensations.
Before performing the massage itself, you can light scented candles. However, this advice is not suitable for everyone, because exotic incense is just annoying for some men and women. Massage oil can also be used at will, because sticky or greasy traces of it remain, and foreplay may have to be interrupted by going to the bathroom to wash off the remnants of lotion from the skin.
Massage can be started right from the head, gentle touches should be alternated with careful scaling with the tips of the nails, gradually lowering down, massaging the shoulders and arms, back and thighs, legs and feet. Such affection causes goosebumps all over the body, which is very pleasant to any of the partners. It is important to pay attention to all parts of the head and body: the back of the head and forehead, the hands and necessarily the fingers and toes. If everything is done correctly, by the end of such a session the body will be relaxed, agitated and ready to continue the sexual act.
What do men like?
Most often, it is the man who does not need preliminary caresses. Unlike a woman, he is excited not by emotion, but by physical contact. Therefore, to bring a young man into a state of extreme ecstasy can, using several tantric or oral techniques. The first method is the impact on the genitals with the hands: alternating strong and gentle compressions, as well as massaging. The second option - caressing the oral cavity: tongue, lips and even teeth. It is important from time to time to change the speed of touch, then accelerating, then slowing down the movement. And do not forget to pay attention to all major and nearby areas near the most intimate places. Perhaps such methods are not suitable for everyone, but this is the most sensual and most delicate way to give a partner a heavenly delight. Preliminary caresses for men often excite women.
Some couples for "raising the mood" prefer this method of foreplay as role-playing games. There is nothing criminal or vulgar in this, on the contrary, the ability to try on the mask of another person allows one to relax, to feel bolder, to realize deep fantasies.
The most popular types of role-playing games are: nurse and patient, teacher and student, housewife and mercenary master, housekeeper and homeowner. For a more natural embodiment of the idea of life in specialized stores, you can purchase suitable clothing sets. However, we can limit ourselves to what is in the wardrobe, focusing on fantasy or on the sexual act itself. It is not necessary to follow the patterns, it is much more interesting to invent your own versions of games. The main thing is to reject the embarrassment and have fun, only then the process will properly act on both partners.
Who still does not suit this option with dressing up, like role-playing games, for the foreplay you can leave only sexy underwear. And here every woman will choose for herself the most suitable: innocent snow-white, fatal bright red, sexy black, lace or satin. Any, which like her and lead to the tone of the sexual partner. Lingerie will help a woman not only to look playful and erotic, but also to hide figure flaws that prevent you from relaxing and imagining yourself desirable and sexy.
Toys for adults
For couples uncomplexed, loving diversity and creativity, there is such a rather bold version of foreplay as the use of toys for adults. In the shops of sex goods there is a rather large assortment of gizmos with sharp, soft, fluffy or vibrating elements that can satisfy any, even the most extravagant tastes. It is important not to use them without the consent of the partner, so as not to shock or not at all discourage sexual desire. It is better to visit such places together. Erotic toys not only add to the sexual life of urgency, but also help further stimulate the partner to receive the long-awaited pleasure.
Striptease is a time-tested and quite popular form of foreplay. Erotic music, dim lights, smooth movements - these are the main criteria for a successful private dance. Any man will appreciate this prelude. A woman can feel bold and liberated, which will have a positive effect on the sexual act itself. The main thing is to prepare in advance for the process: choose a suitable composition, work out a few dance moves, pick up clothes that can be easily and carelessly removed.
Foreplay is not the sexual act itself, and the main pleasure ahead. In order to achieve maximum ecstasy, it is important to drop all constraints, trust a partner, because left without clothes and giving himself a hug, there is no going back.