All people can be divided into types in relation to people and the environment. The person who dislikes people is a misanthrope. It's kind of an interesting psychological phenomenon that manifests itself over several centuries. What is it and how to determine in man the traits of misanthropy?
The concept of misanthropy opposed to philanthropy. And if a misanthrope is a person who doesn't like people, philanthropist, on the contrary, you'll be a lot of love and a sense of compassion for people.
If in the XIX century misanthropes can be counted on one hand, today quite a lot. Such an attitude to the world it became popular among young people. These people communicate with each other and unite in online communities.
Interestingly, the misanthrope, the man who didn't want to love humanity is capable of kind to the animals. Although opinion on this is mixed: philanthropists do not believe that misanthropes are able to love someone. Moreover, they are considered rare selfish.
As there is misanthropy?
Misanthropy is rather strange and not quite understood psychological manifestation. It can occur at any age, some features are harsh judgments against the people can be heard even from children.
Misanthropy may appear in person spontaneously. For example, a person walking down the street and suddenly saw a group of people tormenting the poor dog. For just a second you can become a witness of this scene, and here we have a man who does not like people. This dislike may arise for humanity in General, but only to the individual characteristics inherent in the majority of the population of planet Earth.
In the end, a misanthrope is a person who has never loved and despised the notion of "love." Such people frown at the sight of loving couples and lock themselves at home on Valentine's Day.
However, we can say that the psycho, all alone. Whatever their hatred of humanity and the earth, they are the same as other people, you have to go to work, chat with colleagues, etc. Just so people keep their distance and try to anyone not to get attached.
How to deal with misanthrope
The person who doesn't like people, in principle, there is no desire to communicate with him. Misanthropes are able to bring their loved ones to tantrums with their judgments, therefore, to isolate themselves from their society, that is, a more expensive.
Such a person can befriend people with a similar Outlook. Besides what would the psycho, were, they, like any other people, need to communicate with a live person. Yes, hating humanity is not alone is also enjoyable.
According to psychologists, the only thing that can give a chance to be reborn to the misanthropes, is love and having a child. Man's whole life can hate and despise people, but maternal or paternal feelings will sooner or later manifest themselves at the gut level.
If you want to win a misanthrope, or to become closer to him, then you need to try not to go into his inner world and to be kind and friendly. Perhaps his heart will thaw and hatred will recede into the background.
Most often, misanthropy is a manifestation of juvenile maximalism. In this case, everything will fall into place, as soon as a person becomes older.
Love of misanthropes
Despite the apparent callousness and selfishness, misanthropy often attract people. Especially under their spell get girls. If you just can say: "I love a man who does not need", then perhaps you encountered it misanthrope.
In this case, first you need to have patience: it can be difficult to communicate with such a person, and some misanthrope judgments can lead to white heat.
Then we should help the misanthrope to become on a correction way. Need to try to show the positive side of humanity, but most importantly – to show the misanthrope that he is also an ordinary man and he has his needs, strengths and weaknesses.
Even if a person who does not love people has become soft, some character traits may well be with him for the rest of his life. It's pride, vanity, arrogance and arrogance.
To love a misanthrope is, to some extent, to sacrifice yourself. But, perhaps, this is not so bad, because every person in the world deserves to love and be loved.